Be obsessed with your dream lifestyle

Your dream lifestyle may start out as a wish, a hopeful thought, or as something along the lines of “someday it would be nice…”. But the your dream lifestyle is not a wish, it is not a hope. Your dream lifestyle is what you, more than ANYTHING, desire to have, be , or do. It is your chief aim, your ultimate desire. (Ah hem…thank you Napoleon Hill.)

And the truth of the matter is that you CAN have, be, and do ANYTHING – as long as you BELIEVE that you can have it, can be it, can do it. IT IS THAT SIMPLE! You must believe in yourself, in your dream lifestyle in order to realize – to manifest – it. Doubt is not an option. You must, must, must believe that you – YOU – can have it, be it, do it.

It’s said that the universe works in mysterious ways. And when you believe in your dream lifestyle and you become focused on it – on THEE ONE THING you want more than anything else in the whole world, you’ll have it.

So first, you have to determine WHAT it is that you want. Do YOU KNOW what it is that you really, really want in life?

Once you do, you must become obsessed with it, with your chief aim. Think about your chief aim more than you do anything else. Why? Because what you think about most, you’ll get.

And you MUST think in the positive! It’s not, “I want to quit eating compulsively.” It’s, “I want to be healthy. I want to have a normal appetite.” See the difference? Feel the difference? Good!

When it comes to getting what you want in life, obsession is a good thing. Be obsessed with your dream lifestyle and KNOW that you can have it all! Think in the positive, and think about chief aim – what you really, really want in life – more than you think about anything else. The universe will help you out.

Case and point

My chief aim is to acquire $300,000. Yes, right now in life, my chief aim is money. Over time my chief aim will change; however, the current focus is on $300,000. And it will continue to be on $300,000 until $300,000 is manifested. Why $300,000? Well, I feel GOOD about $300,000. I feel like that’s attainable – realistic. It’s enough to pay off all of my debt (including our home) and leave Brian and I with money to travel and start a family. I have no real idea how I’ll actually acquire that money, but I know that I’ll get it at some point.

And while I don’t exactly know how I’ll acquire $300,000, I feel really good about where I’m at – and EVERY DAY I FEEL EVEN BETTER! I’ve moved into a community whose household income is two to three times that of my former community, my serving job is covering my bills, and I have Monday through Friday to dedicate to building SaraHefty.com, The Pursuit of Ownership, One Million Journeys, and One Million Journeys – Juice Plus.

And the world is helping me out! Just the other day I met three people who desperately need quality whole-food nutrition – a boxer, a woman who has lost 100 pounds (twice!), and an athlete heading to an Olympic training camp. And I met these three amazing people while serving. Thank you universe! Now, of course, it’s up to me to do the leg-work and connect these three to Juice Plus. Although I don’t yet have the smoothest system of sharing contact details while taking orders, it’s something I’m working on and creating. What an incredibly fun way to build a business!

So, do tell! What is your chief aim? Are you obsessed with it? How has the universe helped you out recently?

About Sara


Sara Hefty (B.B.A. and H.H.C.) teaches workaholic women how to have it all and flourish without burning out, binging or being spiteful. As an expert in transformational health coaching, she holds women accountable for letting go of unwanted weight, being brilliantly nourished, grounded in truth and feeling confident, happy and playful every single day.

As a woman with her own weight loss story, wide-ranging family heritage of cancer, and a graduate of the Institute of Integrative Nutrition, Sara’s appreciation for convenient nutrient-dense food, personal growth, inspiring design, financial responsibility, and social entrepreneurship led to her “Pursuit of Ownership: Health, Home, and Legacy” model of heart-on-fire-hot empowered living.

Sara is the founder of PROJECT LUX and SaraHefty.com. She currently lives in Eau Claire, Wisconsin, with her husband Brian and hound-dog Raja.